10 lessons from 10 years of worship leading


As I prepare to wrap up my 10th year in worship ministry, I’ve decided to share 10 different lessons that I have learned.  There have probably been a thousand, but I don’t know anyone besides my mom who would read that. Maybe you are an aspiring worship leader, or you have been in the midst of worship ministry for quite some time.  Whatever the case, I hope this can be a grace to you.


1. Lead people. —Anyone with talent (or in some cases, just a little confidence) can lead a song.  Lead people. Lead them to worship through grief and sorrow, through joy and victory, through the mundane and the apathetic seasons of life.  You get to point people to encounter the greatness of God through Jesus Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit. Lead people.

2. Share the platform. —The church needs to see that there are many singers, but One Savior, a plurality of leaders, but only One Lord.  Sharing the platform can start by giving away a song, a Scripture reading, or a whole service. God calls you to equip the saints for the work of ministry (Ephesians 4:11).  Share the platform.

3. Substance over style. —When the church gathers, they don’t need you to wow them with your abilities, they need to be wowed by the gospel.  Lead your team and your people to see that Jesus is better than their preferences.  

4. Two words: humble confidence. —Quit trying to sell yourself to people and start pointing people to Jesus. Humility, as C.S. Lewis observed, is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.  In God’s kingdom, we don’t walk with swagger or a limp. Christ is all, and in all (Colossians 3:11). So give up on yourself, place your confidence in Christ and run headlong into the calling set before you.

5. You are a theologian. —Tony Merida said that our songs are portable theology.  The songs you lead are shaping the way people think about God and who He is.  The lyrics you choose to place in the mouths of God’s people will impact all of their lives.  “Show me a church’s songs and I’ll show you their theology.” – Gordon Fee

6. You are a child of God. —Before God calls you to ministry, he calls you to intimacy.  Do you want to give the church your best? Before standing up before the congregation to lift your voice, sit at the feet of Jesus and listen to his voice.  

7. Sometimes less is more. —I’m all for turning up the sound, pulling out all the stops, and worshipping the Lord with many sounds and instruments. However, sometimes we need to dial it back and remind ourselves and those we are leading that the Scriptures are sufficient to guide our worship.  If you feel like the church can’t worship God without a full-band, you are deceived.

8. You aren’t entitled to your platform. —The only thing you are entitled to is hell.  The only thing that qualifies you for salvation is your sinful need.  Everything you receive in this life is grace. So the next time you step onto your un-earned platform to lead 10 people or 1,000 people in Scripture and song, remember that you are just one beggar telling other beggars where to find bread. 

9. Stand amazed. —When Jesus sent out his disciples in Luke 10, they came back utterly blown away by what God was using them to do.  Jesus told them, “Do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven” (Luke 10:20).  The source of our amazement is not in what God can accomplish through our gifts and leadership but in what Christ has already accomplished for us through His life, death and resurrection.

10. You’re not the worship leader. —Jesus is the true and better worship leader.  Only he can give people access to God. He lives to make intercession for sinners.  He alone is our great High Priest. By his blood, He leads His people into the presence of God.  Jesus is the Chief Worship Leader.

So there you go, 10 different lessons from 10 years of worship leadership.  I know there’s more. I would love to hear what you would add to this list in the comments below.